I don’t really think some guys understand the concept of cuddling and foreplay. It doesn’t make you soft or weak or less of a man, it just means you enjoy engaging in intimate activity with your girl that might not always lead to sex, but you’ve pretty much got a 80% chance that you’re getting some. Unless she’s one of those rare cases, then you have fun with that. But for real, nothing annoys me more than not having sex on my mind at a particular moment, and then all of a sudden, you’re just on my crotch. This is NOT the same as surprise sex. That’s when you’re already doing something, like sleeping or writing a paper. And even when you do that, you have to build up to it in order to divert your boo’s attention from whatever they’re doing. I’m talking about sitting on the couch doing absolutely not a damn thing and they go into spider monkey mode just trying to ram it in and what not. That’s not sexy, that’s AWKWARD. I can’t enjoy something I’m not even remotely prepared for. Even quickies need a brief verbal consent, but those usually happen in places you have no business having sex in, which adds to the excitement. But that’s all.